Patterns in Love, marriage................(Contd...)

I am splitting this post since it is growing larger. By any chance if you have landed up here directly do read my first post about this topic and come back here.

Let me classify the patterns in love. They are:

• Pre-Love
• In-Love
• Post-Love
• Marriage

Patterns in Love, marriage and the whole nonsense........

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this post are my personal views and are not intended to blame or criticize about love or the lovers. I am not biased towards anyone and it presents both positive and negative aspects love. If you feel that views in this post will hurt you, please stop reading it  here.   
I was 16years old, when I heard something about love, elope/absconded, marriage, ...and they are sticked to my heart from then........They are strucked in my mind because it happened in none other than  my family and he is my own brother who did that!!!  

From then though I keep busy with my self somehow I used to observe and hear about these things very closely (believe me very close to my heart).........Believe me even these things have motivated to give a try for that as well....but I am not successful to get into marriage keyword which I listed above..... This has given me a variety of taste to my life though it spoiled a bit. It has also provoked me to think about this more than anything else. 

I am writing about this now after 9yrs of my first experience because, these days it has become very common that I hear this kind of story at least once in a month from first degree or second degree friend circle..........    

Till now I had heard of many love stories and personally experienced one..   Though love exists in many forms, I am talking about this in the context of a boy and a girl. 

There is nothing called Love at First sight and ur only love at first sight is to u r mother when u are born. It might lead to last sight on this earth if you do not execute it properly... 

Have you ever heard of patterns? Have you ever done somethings repeatedly?? Has something recurrently happened/occured?? This is called pattern. By now you must have started for searching patterns !!! I would better skip off explaining about patterns and give an analogy for them. Architectural/Design patterns are the best examples of patterns for all those soft(ware) engineers. Pattern is a reusable solution for a recurring thing.

Typically a pattern is documented with the following things:

• Name or classification
• Scenario or Intent (where it can be used)
• Structure
• Example  usage

Though there are some other things, they don't carry any importance in this context.

This post describes about my classification and discovery of patterns in love. I would be giving the scenario behind this recurring problem and I conclude with an illustrative real example to understand it better.

Will continue..........