Thursday, September 25, 2008

E-mail wishes on my birthday eve

This is an interesting post on my birthday. This is an e-mail sent by my dearest friend on behalf of my birthday.Full credit goes to him. You can read this post, if you know Telugu language. Others please contact me for the translation.


Happy happy birthdaylu malli malli chesukora..subhakankshala anda cheyyama mitrama..................

ani song paadakunda simple ga adi ki advanced happy birthday wishes ee mail dvara chepdamu andaramu.....

adi ee year tho successful ga quarter century poorthi chesadu......ee paathikella prayanam lo enno odi dudukulani eduru kunnadu....
vaadi prasthanam lo konni milestones

1. IIT MS degree
2. *********
3. Journal Paper in prestigious Inderscience 
4. Conference paper in Set labs
5. Highest appraisal 
6. Ento mandi ammayilani study chesadu...psychological ga, mental ga, behavioural ga,.................:-).
7. Daringly dropped Morgan Stanley and dedicated his life to field of sensor networks
8. Lead a business venture. If not anything he got experience. (of course ikkada koncham bokka padindhanuko)
9. Undergone successfully Sinus operation.....which is affecting adi's productivity earier adversely. Now no such problems.
10. Completed one year in SET labs. Now adi is 1+
11. Brought idea pad. 
12. Last but not least. So many sacrifices and help for friends which went unrecognized. 

Inni saadinchina nigarvi, aajatha satruvu adi ki manam maamuliga cheptey wishes saripodu. Nenu blore eguru kuntu velli chepdamanukunna. Kaani vimananiki rekkalu unna...naaku rekkalu leka egaralekapoya. So anduke andaru gattiga HAPPY BIRTHDAY ADI ani cheppandi.

mounam gaane edagamani mokka neeku cheputundhi......edigina koddi odhagamani ardama andulo undhi.....anna lines ni nirupinchadu. manaki aadarsam ga nilichadu. 

ee year lo adi successful ga marriage chesukuni, loans anni teerchukuni, oka bungalow, oka car konukkuni........hayiga happy ga brtakalani manaspurthi ga aa devudni korukuntu

Itlu nee mithra brundam,

(for the sake of privacy I removed their names)
Name 1
Name 2
Name 3

Patterns in Love, marriage................(Contd...)

I am splitting this post since it is growing larger. By any chance if you have landed up here directly do read my first post about this topic and come back here.

Let me classify the patterns in love. They are:
  • Pre-Love
  • In-Love
  • Post-Love
  • Marriage

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Patterns in Love, marriage and the whole nonsense........

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this post are my personal views and are not intended to blame or criticize about love or the lovers. I am not biased towards anyone and it presents both positive and negative aspects love. If you feel that views in this post will hurt you, please stop reading it here.
I was 16years old, when I heard something about love, elope/absconded, marriage, ...and they are sticked to my heart from then........They are strucked in my mind because it happened in none other than my family and he is my own brother who did that!!!  
From then though I keep busy with my self somehow I used to observe and hear about these things very closely (believe me very close to my heart).........Believe me even these things have motivated to give a try for that as well....but I am not successful to get into marriage keyword which I listed above..... This has given me a variety of taste to my life though it spoiled a bit. It has also provoked me to think about this more than anything else. 
I am writing about this now after 9yrs of my first experience because, these days it has become very common that I hear this kind of story at least once in a month from first degree or second degree friend circle..........    
Till now I had heard of many love stories and personally experienced one..   Though love exists in many forms, I am talking about this in the context of a boy and a girl. 
There is nothing called Love at First sight and ur only love at first sight is to u r mother when u are born. It might lead to last sight on this earth if you do not execute it properly... 
Have you ever heard of patterns? Have you ever done somethings repeatedly?? Has something recurrently happened/occured?? This is called pattern. By now you must have started for searching patterns !!! I would better skip off explaining about patterns and give an analogy for them. Architectural/Design patterns are the best examples of patterns for all those soft(ware) engineers. Pattern is a reusable solution for a recurring thing.

Typically a pattern is documented with the following things:
  • Name or classification
  • Scenario or Intent (where it can be used)
  • Structure
  • Example  usage
Though there are some other things, they don't carry any importance in this context.

This post describes about my classification and discovery of patterns in love. I would be giving the scenario behind this recurring problem and I conclude with an illustrative real example to understand it better.


Will continue..........